In today's first reading, 1 Samuel 1: 1-8, we are given the story of Elkanah and his two wives, Penninah and Hannah. Penninah has born her husband several children while Hannah is barren. On annual visits to the Temple to offer sacrifice, Penninah engages in bullying behavior toward Hannah because of her barren state. She makes fun of her to the point that Hannah loses her appetite. Her grief consumes her. Elkanah, who love both his wives dearly, is also effected. It hurts him deeply to see Hannah in such pain.
Bullying is not confined to Old Testament times. It goes on to this very day, even by those in high positions of authority. Insecure people--persons who are into bullying others--may keep others subject to them by threats of violence, even murder. In some instances, bullying occurs on a large scale basis, with leaders taunting others with machine guns, warheads, and nuclear capabilities.
Bullying, I believe, is done by very insecure people, persons with very low self-esteem. To lift oneself up, a bully pulls others down to his/her state. Gossip of others is a form of bullying. Teasing can also be a form of lifting oneself up at the expense of others.
Am I, are you, engaging in any form of bullying others, putting others down, demeaning or degrading others? If so, what am I, are you, really angry about? What do you, do I, need to do to strengthen our self-esteem? What goals have I, have you, set for yourself today, this week, that will lead to an appreciation of self? And how can you, can I, build others up, affirm others, find good in others and express that good? And if you are a parent, grandparent, how can you affirm your child/grandchild--find at least one thing about that child that you can affirm today! Seek to praise a child in whatever way you can. Catch a child doing good and praise him/her for that good! For instance, "I just saw you share your toy with your little sister/brother. That was kind of you. I am proud of you." Catch your spouse or a fellow Sister in religious life doing good and acknowledge it. Bullying will stop and you and I will be living according to the Gospel of Jesus.
Showing posts with label Making Right Choices. Show all posts
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Monday, January 13, 2020
Saturday, October 5, 2019
God Listens to the Poor
In today's first reading, Baruch 4: 5-12, 27-29, Baruch reminds the people that they "were sold to the nations not for [their] own destruction... [but]because [they] angered God...[Y]ou provoked your Maker with sacrifices to demons, to no-gods; You forsook the Eternal God who nourished you....[C]all out to God. He...will remember you. as your hearts have been disposed to stray from god, turn now ten times the more to seek him; for he...will, in saving you, bring you back enduring joy."
The responsorial psalm, Psalm 69, reminds us that "[t]he Lord listens to the poor--[that is, to those who know their weaknesses and their need for God's help and ask for that help.] See, you lowly ones, and be glad; you who seek God, may your hearts revive! For the Lord hears the poor, and his own who are in bonds he spurns not." And all of us are in bonds that only God can loosen, as Jesus loosened the bonds that bound Lazarus, for instance.
The message of Baruch applies to us today. Like the Israelites, we, too, have sacrificed to demons-- greediness, selfishness, jealousy, gluttony, envy, narcissism, sexism, prejudice, hatred and so on--and to no-gods (wealth, hedonism, consumerism, materialism, sexism, and so on); we forsook the Eternal God who nourishes us in the sacraments, in the blessings of each day, in the love we give and receive from family and friends, in acts of altruism, generosity to the poor and oppressed, in honest living, and in faithfulness to what God asks of us in the ten commandments, in the Scriptures, through the Church and through the Holy Spirit at work in all of the events of our lives.
May we come back to Jesus, serve the Lord and others in self-sacrificing love, in fidelity to our faith, and in building up the Kingdom of justice, love and truth. If we do so, as did the seventy-two disciples (see today's Gospel, Luke 10: 17-24), we will hear Jesus say to us as He said to them on their return from the mission Jesus sent them on: "I have observed Satan fall like lightning from the sky. Behold, I have given you the power 'to tread upon serpents' and scorpions and upon the full force of the enemy..." Do we believe that Jesus has given us this power? Or have we stopped believing in the power of the Spirit given to us in baptism and confirmation, in any of the sacraments?
The responsorial psalm, Psalm 69, reminds us that "[t]he Lord listens to the poor--[that is, to those who know their weaknesses and their need for God's help and ask for that help.] See, you lowly ones, and be glad; you who seek God, may your hearts revive! For the Lord hears the poor, and his own who are in bonds he spurns not." And all of us are in bonds that only God can loosen, as Jesus loosened the bonds that bound Lazarus, for instance.
The message of Baruch applies to us today. Like the Israelites, we, too, have sacrificed to demons-- greediness, selfishness, jealousy, gluttony, envy, narcissism, sexism, prejudice, hatred and so on--and to no-gods (wealth, hedonism, consumerism, materialism, sexism, and so on); we forsook the Eternal God who nourishes us in the sacraments, in the blessings of each day, in the love we give and receive from family and friends, in acts of altruism, generosity to the poor and oppressed, in honest living, and in faithfulness to what God asks of us in the ten commandments, in the Scriptures, through the Church and through the Holy Spirit at work in all of the events of our lives.
May we come back to Jesus, serve the Lord and others in self-sacrificing love, in fidelity to our faith, and in building up the Kingdom of justice, love and truth. If we do so, as did the seventy-two disciples (see today's Gospel, Luke 10: 17-24), we will hear Jesus say to us as He said to them on their return from the mission Jesus sent them on: "I have observed Satan fall like lightning from the sky. Behold, I have given you the power 'to tread upon serpents' and scorpions and upon the full force of the enemy..." Do we believe that Jesus has given us this power? Or have we stopped believing in the power of the Spirit given to us in baptism and confirmation, in any of the sacraments?
Wednesday, October 31, 2018
The Narrow Gate
In today's Gospel Luke 13: 22-30, Jesus speaks about those who will gather around the banquet table in His kingdom, those who strove, here on earth, "to enter [eternal life] through the narrow gate." Jesus reminds us that many will not enter that narrow gate because they will not be strong enough to do so! Strength comes from the Lord, the creator and redeemer of all! Strength comes to those who recognize Jesus as their Savior, as the one who alone can take them through that "narrow gate".
The narrow gate is the gate through which Jesus journeyed while here on earth--obedient to a Higher Power. Obeying the Father's will led to Jesus' death by people who were jealous of Him and who were concerned that others were listening to His teachings and worried that so many were following His way of humility, honesty, righteousness, justice and love for all persons and especially for sinners, the oppressed, the poor, and the outcasts of His culture!
Choosing the "narrow gate" of holiness, as Jesus showed us, will lead to conflict with those who choose the broader gate. "Everyone is doing it," is the reason so many choose to follow the crowd through the broader gate. It's easier! No sweat! No sacrifice! "You'll be like God," Satan told Eve and Adam in the Garden! How many people act as though they are a God, the Higher Power others are to emulate! As with Adam and Eve in the Garden, many fall for Satan's lies and reject the "narrow way."
What choices are you and I making?
The narrow gate is the gate through which Jesus journeyed while here on earth--obedient to a Higher Power. Obeying the Father's will led to Jesus' death by people who were jealous of Him and who were concerned that others were listening to His teachings and worried that so many were following His way of humility, honesty, righteousness, justice and love for all persons and especially for sinners, the oppressed, the poor, and the outcasts of His culture!
Choosing the "narrow gate" of holiness, as Jesus showed us, will lead to conflict with those who choose the broader gate. "Everyone is doing it," is the reason so many choose to follow the crowd through the broader gate. It's easier! No sweat! No sacrifice! "You'll be like God," Satan told Eve and Adam in the Garden! How many people act as though they are a God, the Higher Power others are to emulate! As with Adam and Eve in the Garden, many fall for Satan's lies and reject the "narrow way."
What choices are you and I making?
Thursday, February 15, 2018
Choose Life
In today's first reading, Dt. 30:15-20, we are told that God has set before us life and death. "Choose life,...that you and your descendants may live, by loving the Lord, our God, heeding his voice, and holding fast to him." Yesterday a young man chose death by killing 17 young men and women. This young man is allegedly mentally ill. He was allowed to legally purchase an automatic weapon and was determined, according to a face book message, to become a professional school shooter. Why, I ask, are automatic weapons sold to anyone and are we not choosing death by allowing such purchases to occur? Automatic weapons certainly are not used to kill deer or other animals sought for food! They are used to kill people! I ask myself the following questions: So what goes here? Is it that producing and selling weapons of mass destruction puts millions of dollars in the pockets of the rich? Is it that allowing every human being to possess a gun, for any reason, also creates millions of dollars of profits in corporations that produce these weapons? Is it that gun lobbyists promise millions to politicians who, in turn, refuse to pass gun legislation lest substantial donations diminish? I also wonder whether we are refusing to learn from, and listen to, other countries where only those in law enforcement, those in the military and those hunting game for food possess guns and where there is nothing of the violence we see in our country? I ask: is it that citizens in those countries are a priority, not making millions and making the rich richer at the expense of the poor and at the expense of victims of gun violence, both those who lose their lives and families and friends who mourn these losses?
In today's first reading, Dt. 30: 15-20, Moses says to us: "Today I have set before you life and prosperity, death and doom. If you obey the commandments of the Lord, your God, which I enjoy on you today, loving him [by loving and protecting others], and walking in his ways, and keeping his commandments, statues and decrees [do not kill and, I would say, do not promote killing],...the Lord, your God will bless you...If, however, you turn away your hearts [from what is right] and will not listen, but are led astray and adore and serve other gods [greed, consumerism, materialism, gluttony, lust, wealth accumulated illegally, through deceit and corrupt choices, and at the expense of the poor, etc.], I tell you now that you will certainly perish...."
Is the United States on the path of destruction, courting death and doom, promoting death, intentionally or unintentionally? Am I, or you, on a path that depletes life by our disobedience, our refusal to follow the voice of good spirits prompting us to do God's holy will, to love as God loves, to be compassionate as God is compassionate? Are we on a path that shows a lack of concern for the rights of all people, all races, all genders, all nationalities, the rich and the poor, immigrants and non-immigrants, the young and the old? Am I, are you, living lives of rebellion against what we know puts us in right relationship with God, with self and others?
"Chose life...by loving the Lord, your God, heeding his voice, and holding fast to him" (Dt. 30:19).)
In today's first reading, Dt. 30: 15-20, Moses says to us: "Today I have set before you life and prosperity, death and doom. If you obey the commandments of the Lord, your God, which I enjoy on you today, loving him [by loving and protecting others], and walking in his ways, and keeping his commandments, statues and decrees [do not kill and, I would say, do not promote killing],...the Lord, your God will bless you...If, however, you turn away your hearts [from what is right] and will not listen, but are led astray and adore and serve other gods [greed, consumerism, materialism, gluttony, lust, wealth accumulated illegally, through deceit and corrupt choices, and at the expense of the poor, etc.], I tell you now that you will certainly perish...."
Is the United States on the path of destruction, courting death and doom, promoting death, intentionally or unintentionally? Am I, or you, on a path that depletes life by our disobedience, our refusal to follow the voice of good spirits prompting us to do God's holy will, to love as God loves, to be compassionate as God is compassionate? Are we on a path that shows a lack of concern for the rights of all people, all races, all genders, all nationalities, the rich and the poor, immigrants and non-immigrants, the young and the old? Am I, are you, living lives of rebellion against what we know puts us in right relationship with God, with self and others?
"Chose life...by loving the Lord, your God, heeding his voice, and holding fast to him" (Dt. 30:19).)
Friday, December 11, 2015
Who Am I Trying to Please
In today’s Gospel, Matthew 11: 16-19, the people complain
about John the Baptist as being possessed by a demon because he did not drink nor eat with them as
they expected. Jesus, on the other hand,
did eat and drink with people and they
called him a “glutton and a drunkard.”
Matthew concludes this passage with the statement: “…wisdom is
vindicated by her words.” We probably
all know that we will never please everyone no matter what we do. We can try but our efforts will be in vain and
we will be left feeling empty and a bit crazy! “…wisdom,” in our lives, will be “vindicated”
by the works we do in accord with God’s will for us, not by whether or not we
pleased everyone. If we are true to
what we are called to as unique persons with a special mission/purpose to fulfill
as the Spirit leads us through the gift of each day, Wisdom will
vindicate us. We will then be at peace. On the other hand, if our goal is to
please everyone we will not rest in the peace of Christ, a peace the world
cannot give. The choice is ours to make.
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